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My Bad Day was a Great Day~ Relatively Speaking

Two weeks ago I did something absolutely terrifying~ a webinar.

A webinar is like a teleseminar, except instead of speaking into a telephone, you speak into a microphone on your computer. And instead of being invisible, participants can actually see you and your slides.

Unless they can’t.

A teleseminar is easy~ you prepare your content, practice, invite people and speak into your telephone.

A webinar is hard~ you prepare your content, create your slides, practice, add more slides, invite people, delete some slides, figure out the technical piece of broadcasting your webinar, freak out, consider canceling it, enlist the help of anyone on the planet who can help you figure it, take a deep breath and begin your presentation.

My marketing assistant was a HUGE help throughout the process. She and I did a test an hour before, just to make sure everyone could see and hear me. Double thumbs up; we were good to go!

Thirty seconds into the live broadcast, I received this horrifying text from her

In that moment, I was tele-ported back to my first week-long training with Bob Proctor. The great Carol Gates was on stage, teaching on public speaking. She shared the wisdom of the late Bill Gove and told us

“A pro is at their best, regardless.”

Although I was definitely not feeling much like a pro at that point, I knew if I tried to adjust my settings, it would be a disaster. I envisioned agonizing minutes-which-felt-like-HOURS of fumbling, apologizing and sweating, none of which are pro-like. I knew I could re-record it so everyone would be able to see the slides on the replay, and I opted to keep going.

45 minutes later it was over.

I spent the rest of that day and part of the next figuring out what went wrong, re-recording the presentation and sending it out to all the registrants. People were very understanding and I learned a ton. The next time will be a breeze.

The next day I went for my haircut. Because my hairdresser is also an amazing psychic shrink, he knew I wasn’t my self; he said I seemed anxious. So I told him of my webinar woes, complete with dramatic details of this horrific event in my life. He listened intently and seemed genuinely sympathetic to what I had gone through.

And then he said something which immediately shook me back to reality. He said

“At least you didn’t fall off your boat!”

Since I don’t watch the News, I had no idea what he was talking about. So he recounted the story of the x-NFL player who was fishing from his boat, fell overboard, watched his boat cruise away on auto-pilot and proceeded to swim FOR SIXTEEN HOURS back to shore.

Instantly, my “horrific event” became a walk-in-the-park. Although Robert Konrad and I both “worked our butts off” for 16 hours straight that day, my work was play, compared to his work/fight for his life.

Never thought of myself as a drama queen, but I certainly earned my crown that day. Hearing that story and then later watching the video let me see my webinar woes from a different perspective. Did I really use the words “terrifying” and “horrific” to describe my ordeal?

Shame on me! Big whiner! Baby! Wuss!

The great thing about this is we can always use the Law of Relativity and practice comparing our struggles to something worse. We can practice keeping things in perspective, instead of giving more energy to how frustrated we feel. I learned a big lesson from my dramatic antics and I am already looking forward to my next webinar. :-D Just gotta keep swimming.


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What if We Choose Better Questions?

I just read Randy Gage’s New Year’s post, where he encourages us to choose a Word-for-the-Year. Here’s what he said:

“Every New Years, I select a one-word theme to set my intention, guide me forward, and keep myself centered through the year. More than a resolution, it is an attitude for what kind of year I am going to create.”

I’ve never chosen a Word-for-the-Year before…up until now. And my word is Continue reading


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What Time is Happy Hour? RIGHT NOW!

Image 1This quote has been taped to the shelf on my desk for at least a year or two…maybe three! I sit at my desk every single day, yet I haven’t actually read this in quite some time.

But today, for some reason, I paused and I read it. And I remember why I felt it was important enough to type up, print out on bright pink paper and hang on my desk; because I often forget.

In case you can’t read it in the picture, here’s what it says…

Your life is RIGHT NOW!
It’s not later!
It’s not in that time of retirement.
It’s not when the lover gets here.
It’s not when you’ve moved into the new house.
It will always be RIGHT NOW.
You might as well decide to start enjoying
your life RIGHT NOW,
because it’s not ever going to get better than RIGHT NOW,
until it gets better RIGHT NOW!


One of my goals for 2015 is to sell my current home and purchase a new one at the Jersey Shore. And I just KNOW I will be happy when that goal is achieved. In fact, I spend a lot of time thinking about how awesome life will be, just steps from the ocean. And today (and hopefully tomorrow) I am thinking about how awesome life is RIGHT NOW!

What about you?
Do you find yourself thinking about how happy you “will be, when……….” ?
What are you happy about RIGHT NOW?




by | December 10, 2014 · 1:02 PM

If you expect to be irritated, you will be

irritated (1)One of my favorite daily emails comes from Abraham and today’s quote has perfect timing for me, and maybe for you too. Here it is….. 

To evoke the best from others, you must find a vibration that is a match to the best in others. Continue reading

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An Amazingly Awesome Idea from E-Cubed

OMGFaceFor the past two weeks I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with an idea I got from Pam Grout’s newest book “E-Cubed~Nine More Energy Experiments that Prove Manifesting Magic and Miracles is Your Full-time Gig.” Grout has a practice of getting up every morning and proclaiming the following: Continue reading


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What do you call a Cool Old Person? A Cooldie!

IMG_0183After having lunch with my 87 year old Aunt Betty yesterday, I’m coining a new term and here it is:

COOLDIE: (noun) a person over the age of 80,
who is still very cool
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What Kind of Genius Are You?

IMG_0959 A few months ago, I wrote about the fabulous gifts my kids gave me on Mother’s Day. Yesterday, I pulled one of the papers out of my “50 Days of Happy” jar and here is the quote it contained. Continue reading

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What I Learned About Marketing From Barbara Walters

babsI had trouble falling asleep last night, so I scrolled through the list of On-Demand shows and decided to watch Barbara Walters’ final episode on The View.
(For the record, ~not that there actually IS a record~ I am not a fan of The View, but I am definitely a Barbara Walters fan.Continue reading


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Struggle Ends When Gratitude Begins

struggle2Love this gratitude quote from Neale Donald Walsch and had a first-hand illustration of it this week.

“The struggle ends when
the gratitude begins” Continue reading


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What I Learned About Goal Achieving from a Purple Candle

This week we’re doing Experiment #2 from E-Squared by Pam Grout. As a group, we set out to explore the theory that
we impact the field of potentiality (FP) and draw from it based on our beliefs and expectations. Continue reading

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