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GRATITUDE is Always the Answer

Pam Grout is the amazingly awesome author of #1 NY Times Bestseller E-Squared: Nine Do-It-Yourself Energy Experiments that Prove Your Thoughts Create Your Reality, and yesterday I had the pleasure of speaking with her.

I told her about a young woman I met (who, interestingly, stumbled upon me because of a comment I left on Pam’s blog. Whaddaya know!) who is struggling with feeling depressed and worries that she will never feel better again. Lana, which is not her real name, said she’s “tried everything” and nothing seems to work. We had a good conversation and I gave her a few suggestions, which should help.

I asked Pam what she would suggest for someone who is really feeling STUCK (physically, emotionally, financially, creatively…) and she said, without question,


When we shift our focus away from what’s wrong and towards what’s right, our reality shifts, almost immediately. Our problems might not instantly disappear, (unless they do) but they do begin to improve, almost immediately.

Pam said “If you have a closet with a change of clothes and a refrigerator to keep your food cold, you’ve won the lottery! And the best way to create “riches” is to see and appreciate all the blessings you already have, like the sun coming up and your heart beating…”

She went on to say “Certain things do need our thought, so spend a certain percentage of time thinking about those things, but then spend an equal percentage of time thinking about the possibilities. We only continue to create the same-old-same-old because we continue to punctuate it in our mind; we continue to think about it constantly, when there is so much more that is possible.”

And there you have it~ Gratitude is the answer. It is always the solution to the problem. If in doubt, just ask Pam Grout. laughter In fact, her newest book, (with a kick-butt title, which I promised not to share) which is due out soon, is



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A Love List for My Son

I am on Day #12 of my 30-Day Test for my Strangest Secret group. In case you don’t know, my 30-Day Goal is to sell my house, so all of my focus, effort and time are directed only at that, for 18 more days in a row. Continue reading


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A 30-Day Test for the Law of Attraction

Strangest SecretIn The Strangest Secret, Earl Nightingale challenges us to take a 30-Day Test, and that test begins this week for my Strangest Secret students. Each participant has chosen a 30-Day Goal and will begin their 30-Day Test on April 22nd. Continue reading


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A FUNNY Way to Eliminate Worry

Do you have any worry, doubts or fears?
Me either.

laughterHahahaha, of course we do~ we’re human!

Well here’s an easy, fun way to eliminate or, at the very least, minimize the vibrational impact those negative thoughts have… Continue reading


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Annoyed? Think INSIDE the Box

Last week in my Outwitting the Devil classes, we discussed something the devil says about Definiteness of Purpose, which is essential for our success. He says:

“Anyone who submits to annoyance by things he does not want is not definite. He is a drifter.”
(FYI, being a drifter is not a good thing.)
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Why I Don’t Get the Flu Shot ~or the Flu!

I know I won’t get the Flu.

You might be cringing just hearing me boldly say that, but don’t worry~ I’m not gonna get the flu and it’s not because I got a flu shot, cuz I didn’t. (see DISCLAIMER below) Continue reading

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My Bad Day was a Great Day~ Relatively Speaking

Two weeks ago I did something absolutely terrifying~ a webinar.

A webinar is like a teleseminar, except instead of speaking into a telephone, you speak into a microphone on your computer. And instead of being invisible, participants can actually see you and your slides.

Unless they can’t. Continue reading


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What if We Choose Better Questions?

I just read Randy Gage’s New Year’s post, where he encourages us to choose a Word-for-the-Year. Here’s what he said:

“Every New Years, I select a one-word theme to set my intention, guide me forward, and keep myself centered through the year. More than a resolution, it is an attitude for what kind of year I am going to create.”

I’ve never chosen a Word-for-the-Year before…up until now. And my word is Continue reading


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What Time is Happy Hour? RIGHT NOW!

Image 1This quote has been taped to the shelf on my desk for at least a year or two…maybe three! I sit at my desk every single day, yet I haven’t actually read this in quite some time. Continue reading


by | December 10, 2014 · 1:02 PM

If you expect to be irritated, you will be

irritated (1)One of my favorite daily emails comes from Abraham and today’s quote has perfect timing for me, and maybe for you too. Here it is….. 

To evoke the best from others, you must find a vibration that is a match to the best in others. Continue reading

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